“By staying emotionally attached, especially if you still feel longing, need, or urgency, you’re actually broadcasting a message of unavailability to the world. Your obsessed frequency is saying that you’re already in a relationship. Even if that relationship is only in your imagination, you’re putting up an energetic wall to prevent any future loves from entering the picture.” page 214

“The law of Paradoxical Intent dictates that the sooner you can be at peace with being alone, the sooner you’ll project the kind of energy that magnetizes more peace and happiness-and more love-into your life. The paradox comes when you use your fear of being alone as your motivation for pursuing relationships. If you feel you can’t be happy while alone, it practically ensures that you will stay both unhappy and alone.” page 216

“If you have been a happiness chaser throughout your life, you need to become a happiness creator. You need to provide for yourself that which you are looking for from others. Ask yourself what it is that makes you happy, and then take responsibility for creating that in your life. If it’s encouragement, give encouragement to yourself. If you need more fun, find ways to bring more fun into your life. Ultimately you need to establish two things: joy-seeking attitude and an appreciation consciousness.” page 219

Sandra Anne Taylor, Secrets Of Attraction, The Universal Laws Of Love, Sex, And Romance.

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